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Sunglasses and Hats in Dating Photos: Do They Hurt?

Anything covering your face costs you in the photos that matter. Where sunglasses and hats are fine, and where they're expensive.

The PhotoDating.ai Team4 min read
Portrait at the beach

Both are fine in one photo and costly across a set. The reason is simple: people are trying to read your face, and eyes carry most of what they're reading.

Sunglasses

Sunglasses remove the eyes, which is where warmth, humour and genuineness are read. A smile without visible eyes is exactly the smile people describe as fake. Worse, a profile where every photo has sunglasses raises the obvious suspicion — that you're hiding what you look like.

One sunglasses photo, in a context that explains them — a beach, a hike, driving somewhere with the top down — is fine and can look good. Never the opener.

Hats

Hats cost less than sunglasses, because they don't cover the eyes — but a brim shadows them, which does much the same damage in bright light. Caps also invite the assumption that you're covering hair loss, fairly or not. If that isn't the story you want, one hat photo out of six settles it.

The standard

At least three photos in your set must show your unobstructed face in good light, including the first. Everything else is optional.

The same logic elsewhere

  • Masks and face paint. Fun, and unusable as anything but a later photo.
  • Heavy filters. Same effect as a covering — people can't see your face, and they know it.
  • Extreme distance. A photo where you're a speck against a mountain is a landscape, not a portrait.
  • Hair over the face. Easy to miss when you take it, obvious to everyone else.

See dating photos to avoid for the rest of the list.

Questions

FAQ

Can my first photo have sunglasses?

No. The opening photo has one job — showing your face clearly enough for someone to decide. Sunglasses remove the most informative part of it.

How many photos can have a hat?

One or two out of six. Beyond that it starts to read as a deliberate pattern, and people draw their own conclusions about why.

What about prescription glasses?

Completely different — they don't hide your eyes and they're part of how you actually look. Wear them in most of your photos if you wear them in life.

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