Free tool
First Message Generator
"Hey" gets ignored. Tell us one thing from their profile and get a few first messages that feel personal, playful and easy to answer — so the conversation actually starts.
How it works
Using the First Message Generator
1
Add a detail
A prompt, a photo or an interest from their profile.
2
Get openers
Several first messages that reference it and invite a reply.
3
Send the best one
Copy your favourite and start the chat.
Support
First Message Generator — FAQ
Why not just say hi?
Generic openers get the lowest reply rate of anything you can send. A message that references something specific signals effort and gives them an easy way to respond.
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